Healing

Healing... for those who have experienced sexual abuse, known or unknown. I'm not condemning you, as I'm speaking from past experience. (I believe that if you are addicted to sex, masturbation and porn, that's a good indicator that you've experienced sexual trauma) - because watching other people have sex is actually strange, and it's morally wrong. It's inappropriate, in so many ways, and the fact that you may be defending it is evidence enough that the devil has you hooked. But, the Devil is a LIAR. You CAN be free from this! 

Note: What you watch... God watches. Your thoughts... He hears. - Would you want your Heavenly Father watching what you watch, and hearing your thoughts? Do you need to repent for your thoughts and your actions? Do you need Him to HELP you with your thoughts and actions? How beautiful would it be if you could think and do all things that is pleasing, instead? Contrary to popular belief... It CAN be done. God is so waiting for you to turn to Him and ask Him for His divine help! I turned to Him while I was DEEP INSIDE MY Chaos. (In fact, I think I was drunk and high at the time.)



Then there's the other spectrum... If you're averse to sex... Asexual. If you find sex disgusting, that's an indication that there might be some form of sexual trauma there. 

I realize this may be extremely painful for you, and know that I'm another human being who is going through this healing process. 

📖This may sound really confusing, but...I went from Asexual to Hypersexual, and back to Asexual. I've experienced gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia as well as paraphylia. I'm currently Asexual, I find the concept of sex disgusting. I've also experienced a lifetime of sexual abuse, basically saying YES when I wanted to say NO. I forced myself to ignore my inner cries of fear. I became my own bully, forcing myself to do things that I didn't enjoy, that were disgusting to me, that were painful to me, that I needed to be drunk or high for, because my fear of man made me freeze. So I feel like I've been through a lifetime of sexual abuse, where I was my abuser because of my bodies inability to understand my inner emotions, mistaking fear for pleasure. It feels as if my soul has been sexually trafficked, and that I consented to it while I was in a trance. It's extremely confusing, as if the kundalini spirit and the jezebel spirit were in complete control of me. 

My faith and my trust lies in God as my healer. Yes, He heals even today. He's Jehovah Rapha, ie. The Lord who heals. Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow, He's the same Jesus from the Holy Bible who healed the sick, cast out demons and fed the poor. He exists, today. 


I pray that you find these steps useful in discovering your truth. God truly loves you, and He needs you to know that He is here for you,  🤍 He is in every video posted below, no matter where you are or when you watch it, God is outside of time, so He's with you RIGHT NOW. He will never leave you, as long as there's breath in your lungs, there's Hope for Salvation. 

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1. Repressed memories of sexual abuse : https://youtu.be/h_fmAjp6SMs?si=OZiiJFWfbY5Z3V71

2. Dissociation - Common symptoms experienced by child sexual abuse survivors : https://youtu.be/S4CeYDkFYmw?si=fkFLFyJE3N4c7IBB 

🔗 Learn more about dissociation here: https://saprea.org/heal/dissociation/

3. He is reversing the verdict and restoring honor to you : https://youtu.be/LqTl10yluq0?si=8vOGH1_LpIh7Euoc 

🔗 Here's the morning doves 🕊️ tune: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BA91FpOKhX8&pp=0gcJCR0AztywvtLA

4. God is inviting you to have your mental health restored : https://youtu.be/hICFjfDFLZ0?si=HVgM3jeyReJMeT16

5. Deliverance | Curses from trusting in man : https://youtu.be/nfw_RsqJFK0?si=TEZrnw_fTq5XSaxf

6. Python and Kundalini MASS deliverance prayer :https://youtu.be/5s4CaLGU_gE?si=JuqJadCiDp-K8KzU

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Lord, I thank you. I thank you for sticking with your promises to never leave us nor forsake us. 

Deuteronomy 31 : 8 "Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you ; He will neither fail you nor abandon you"



I'm sorry, Jesus, that people blame you for what Satan is doing on earth. I'm sorry that people pick Bible verses to use against you without seeking you for themselves. If only they knew that you are right there, that all they need to do is to turn towards you. If only they stopped blaming, and started seeking. Then they would know. They would follow you to the ends of the earth, Lord. So I thank you. I thank you for providing these 6 steps for me. Thank you for always providing for me. Thank you for making me aware that at times I'm my own worst enemy, and that I doubt your love for me. I worship you. I love you. I'm learning to trust you more, although it's been really hard for me. My prayer for today, in particular:

Psalm 51:10-12: "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence, and do not take your holy spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and sustain in me a willing spirit"



Amen 🙏

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A really good post by Evangelist Jordan:

"Healing only comes when you recognize it's okay to let go and take off the mask without feeling any shame.



Healing comes when you recognize it's okay to be vulnerable, to let go and let God shed light on all the broken places of your soul that you've been creating agendas and personalities to protect for so long.

Healing can only begin when you choose to acknowledge the survival mechanisms that you've been holding on to since a child, and allow God to create a safe enough place for you to give them up and finally allow Him to cover you. And whatever comes to the surface, knowing that whatever God chooses to shed light on, being so sure and dependent on Him to cover you that you're no longer moved or bothered by the reaction or persecution that you might get from other people.

I choose to let go of the drug called approval that I've had to work so hard to get by editing and molding myself into this artificial carbon copy  of a person just to get the same disease that the rest of the word is carrying. That the enemy manipulates us into thinking has some type of value, when really in all reality I was just working to get a hospital bed next to other sick people.

Approval with the price of losing authenticity is more like theft. Validation with the price of self rejecting is more like a prison but committing a crime against oneself just to sit at a table with other prisoners. 

Healing can only come when you're ready to let go of the tension and the defensiveness with having to explain yourself even without the reassurance of safety from other people, knowing that God himself is your refuge. 

Your approval is from heaven, and heaven alone. Your value and identity is in Christ and being able to tap into the freedom that most will never know or have the courage to receive. It takes courage to heal. It takes courage to become vulnerable. It takes courage to confess where you're weak and allow Gods grace to be sufficient for you in that area. It takes courage to really look in the mirror and see your reflection and realize that every pursuit in your life was just a reflection of your insecurities and to sit in the silent loudness of having to deal with these things one by one and having to persevere through the temporary pain of everlasting freedom. The type of freedom that comes with finally being confident who God made you to be."

Evangelist Jordan

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Intense. Gifted. Highly sensitive. Neurodivergent. - Me




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